FEAR
Fear is my biggest enemy. It stops me from doing things that will have a good impact of change in my life. I ask myself why do I let my FEAR get a hold of me . I realized that I have never really faced it , I've always taken the easy way out but I know inside of me I don't want to be that way . If there is a next time , I'm pretty sure there will be a next time of facing my fear and this is because I've heard a saying that goes " Courage is not being brave , it's being scared and still doing it anyways " , this really got to me to stand up and face my fear it gave me determination . Let me tell you a long-short of my experience that relates to the " Fear " I had and still have .
I've always have wanted to join something that would be beneficial to me , that I would like to do , in general be involved but my fear always get's the best of me . This time that I had an opportunity too attend a meeting of Link Crew Leadership that I would like to be experience but still not sure about it , I just simply wanted to know more of what was it about , so then I had to go by myself , friends were busy at the time and I'm that type of person that most likely does not like going somewhere alone , I get this social anxiety , I still went at least my friend decided to walk with me to where the meeting event was taking place but as we got there I saw many people talking to each other then my thoughts came racing in my mind of " If I stay here , I would like a lonely person" , " Who would even talk to me?" , " I won't know what to do " , I felt so overwhelmed by my thoughts and my feelings that were nervous full with anxiety then after that I just kept on walking saying to my friend " Should I stay or no ?" , " I'm just gonna go home " so what I did was leave then I regretted after on the ride home thinking to myself " I should of stayed " it felt like i let myself down . I analyze myself and think what am i like that when it comes almost facing my fear and that is I'm a shy person who needs a little push forward from someone to get out there but now i know i don't need that , I can push myself and the point of this whole thing is that I came to realization is I'm not being who I'm really am , on the outside it's a shy person but not much shy and on the inside it feels like I'm a whole different person who is hungry to get out and show it's talents that it has locked up inside . I want to make clear though of fear is not a weakness to me it's more of courage and standing up to it , to be stronger than before . At last it's me battling against myself . I'm telling you all this to whoever is reading that am I the only one this way ? Have you ever experience this , relating to it ?" I'm curious to know how other people state of mindset they have and that's why I write this .
I've always have wanted to join something that would be beneficial to me , that I would like to do , in general be involved but my fear always get's the best of me . This time that I had an opportunity too attend a meeting of Link Crew Leadership that I would like to be experience but still not sure about it , I just simply wanted to know more of what was it about , so then I had to go by myself , friends were busy at the time and I'm that type of person that most likely does not like going somewhere alone , I get this social anxiety , I still went at least my friend decided to walk with me to where the meeting event was taking place but as we got there I saw many people talking to each other then my thoughts came racing in my mind of " If I stay here , I would like a lonely person" , " Who would even talk to me?" , " I won't know what to do " , I felt so overwhelmed by my thoughts and my feelings that were nervous full with anxiety then after that I just kept on walking saying to my friend " Should I stay or no ?" , " I'm just gonna go home " so what I did was leave then I regretted after on the ride home thinking to myself " I should of stayed " it felt like i let myself down . I analyze myself and think what am i like that when it comes almost facing my fear and that is I'm a shy person who needs a little push forward from someone to get out there but now i know i don't need that , I can push myself and the point of this whole thing is that I came to realization is I'm not being who I'm really am , on the outside it's a shy person but not much shy and on the inside it feels like I'm a whole different person who is hungry to get out and show it's talents that it has locked up inside . I want to make clear though of fear is not a weakness to me it's more of courage and standing up to it , to be stronger than before . At last it's me battling against myself . I'm telling you all this to whoever is reading that am I the only one this way ? Have you ever experience this , relating to it ?" I'm curious to know how other people state of mindset they have and that's why I write this .
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